Three Wishes for a 20-Something (139)

Every time I interview a 40-something woman for 40:20 Vision I ask them what 3 “gifts” would they give a 20-something if they were a “Forty-Godmother”. Here are one woman’s gifts:

1. 

Be your own standard of comparison. Anything else is unfair. You have no idea if that person you are comparing yourself to is just treading water or if they have thir feet firmly planted.

2.

Beware of getting into a relationship with guy / partner who doesn’t have any friends.

3. 

Shop for dresses when you don’t need one. Then you can buy one you feel fabulous in rather than settle for one because the wedding / event is upon you.