Who Is The Person You Want To Grow Into? What I Know Now

All the tactical tools in the world won’t work on the underlying system is broken. Focus on the foundation first…whether that is you, or an organization or group

Instead of asking “What do I want to do?” ask yourself, “who do I want to be?” Spend time figuring out the woman you want to grow into. Create a vision for who that person it. What do you value, what activities are associated with that, what behaviors does a person like this engage in?

To get there you will need to stretch yourself and that is where the tools come in. You need to develop tools to deal with the fears anxieties and challenges of going to new places and growing. These will eventually become natural. And then you will be ready for your next challenge.

These are takeaways from an interview with Tara Sophia Mohr, author of Playing Big,

And don’t forget to acknowledge the wins.

About Three Gifts (and tell us yours):

Three Gifts for a 20-Something: What three “gifts” would you give a 20-something if you were a “Forty-Godmother”? Here 40-somethings share three wishes to help a 20-something get a head start on the confidence to make decisions that are right for them (not their parents, friends, teachers or society). No more woulda, coulda, shoulda. 

You can submit your three gifts here (no matter what your age).

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