Herewith, three “gifts” one 40-something woman would give a 20-something if she were a “Forty-Godmother”. What are yours?
Don’t wait for fate to tell you the right answer. Make mistakes and find your lucky breaks…and you will find your own direction. I love the saying..luck is where preparation meets opportunity. I’d put the emphasis on the preparation. When you are skilled and can see opportunities…I think luck will find you.
Risks. Take them. Risks are just decisions. There will always be another.
Trust. There’s nothing sexier than trust in a relationship. It seems counterintuitive… but trust gives you freedom to be independent and bring that excitement back to the relationship. It’s what turns passion from being a spark that dies into something that can last a lifetime if you want it. Take care of it.