My last post was from a woman who felt that if you don’t know something…then don’t make a decision. Let the truth reveal itself to you rather than force a decision. As the point here is to provide different perspectives so you can make your own decision, here are some other thoughts on making decisions […] Read more…
Archive of ‘Self & Wellness’ category
20-Somethings Want to Know: What Do You Miss From Your Twenties?
Dear 40-somethings: Sometimes, I can’t wait to be established in my life and career, but I don’t want to wish away this time in my life. Is there anything you miss about being twenty-something? If you are a 40-something reader and want to share your wisdom, I would love to hear your input on […] Read more…
Don’t Know? Don’t Decide Right Now
Decisions can be daunting. And you can be tempted just to make a decision just to move forward. That is the case with business…make a move and learn. But is the same true of personal lives? Today’s perspective is from a woman who thinks not. “In business the sooner you make a decision the […] Read more…
Flash Friday: How Do Your Priorities Change as You Get Older?
Today is Flash Friday – when 40:20 Vision tackles an issue from both the 40-something and 20-something perspective. Joining me on this mission is Molly Ford of Smart Pretty and Awkward. Today’s topic is priorities: how do we decide what to prioritize and does it change as we get older? Is there a difference from day-to-day […] Read more…
The Unknown is Just An Invitation to Know and Grow
“The unknown gets less scary as you get older. Don’t worry so much about what’s going to happen tomorrow and whether you are going to be able to handle it. You will. You have it in you. And then once you do you will realize you can conquer the unknown because you have done it […] Read more…
How to Broach the D-word
Dear 40-somethings, I was married at 19 and divorced by 21 with no children. Although, I feel like divorce was the only option after discovering my husband’s painful affair yet I still can’t help being embarrassed. The few strangers I’ve had to tell have given me such judgmental looks and comments that it changes the […] Read more…
Don’t Listen to the Obnoxious Voices in Your Head
I am excited to be attending the Women’s Entrepreneur Festival this week and will report what interesting things I learn. Arianna Huffington gave a beautifully warm, funny and motivating keynote speech last night. I don’t have time to share the highlights now but parts of it were similar to the messages she gave at a […] Read more…
Learning to be More Flexible
I went to yoga last night. I don’t “practice” yoga regularly but I would like to some day. I did hear that Russell Simmons yelled out in a yoga class…”you are the age you start doing yoga.” It may be an urban (nyc) myth but there is something motivating about it. But last night I […] Read more…