What three “gifts” would you give a 20-something if you were a “Forty-Godmother”? Here 40-somethings share three wishes to help a 20-something get a head start on the confidence to make decisions that are right for themselves. No more woulda, coulda, shoulda.
The voices in head are fear….you can talk back to them. Just say, “No I’m not going to listen. I’m going around you and above you and I am going to go do this and see for myself.”
Try to become self aware. You know when you’re pushing yourself too much and need to dial it back. Don’t just keep doing it. Find some tools to help you avoid negative habits. There is pretty much nothing that can’t be helped by calling a girlfriend. When you are down or about to do something stupid, call a girlfriend.
Have a sense of humor. It’s life. Don’t wallow or sit in it.