What three “gifts” would you give a 20-something if you were a “Forty-Godmother”? 40-something women share three things to help a 20-something get a head start on the confidence to make decisions that are right for themselves. No more woulda, coulda, shoulda.
1. You are going to go through many phases of who you are….you may find yourself finding things you cared deeply about in your twenties less important — it is not that you are betraying yourself, if your beliefs are important you will find a new way to express them.
2. Put less emotional angst into guys in your twenties. It’s not worth wondering “WHY”? Get into what you love doing and be open to love the goes beyond the look.
3. Be open to working really hard to get what you want!