What three “gifts” would you give a 20-something if you were a “Forty-Godmother”? 40-something women share three things to help a 20-something get a head start on the confidence to make decisions that are right for themselves. No more woulda, coulda, shoulda.
1. Talk to your friends about your fears and insecurities. You will find you are not alone at worst, be surprised that you are way off base at best — and get a lot of support in between.
2. The worst person to lie to is yourself. Don’t lie to yourself.
3. Find things you love to do out on your own beyond a good TV binge so you don’t go out just for sake of not staying home.