Every time I interview a 40-something woman for 40:20 Vision I ask them what three “gifts” would they give a 20-something if they were a “Forty-Godmother”. In essence, three things to help you get a head start on perspective and gain the confidence you need to make decisions that are right for you. No more woulda, coulda, shoulda.
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1. Soul-mates are created not found . Nurture what you see and love in this person.
2. You can find interests and strengths. Learning and doing are the best way to build them and turn them into experience. Don’t wait…jump in.
3. Pat attention to when you are distracting yourself…eventually whatever you are districting yourself from is going to have to be addressed.