Every time I interview a 40-something woman for 40:20 Vision I ask them what three “gifts” would they give a 20-something if they were a “Forty-Godmother”. Herewith, there wishes to help you get a head start on perspective and gain confidence making decisions that are right for you.
1. Don’t change yourself for another person. Wait for a guy that fits you. You want to bring out the best in each other rather than have a constant give and take.
2. Keep your eyes open for any opportunity. The job may not be perfect but if you can read between the lines and see what might happen in the future then maybe you’ll fit in a different capacity. Whether it be in the role you’re in now or in a different department where you see yourself long-term.
3, Learn to take praise and accept compliments