Herewith, three “gifts” one 40-something woman would give a 20-something if she were a “Forty-Godmother”. What are yours?
The ability to get a little messy. In your twenties it’s okay to mess up. Take some risks. Listen to what happens an learn.
Don’t worry if your path is’t so linear. I was so worried about getting this promotion and getting to that level. I wish I had branched out a little more. But don’t just switch jobs because you are agitated and you want to move on to the next “that”. That is the same thing. Take an inventory about what it is you don’t like about your current job, what you aren’t getting and what you want. Do it because it’s the right thing to do, not because you’re agitated.
Just live your life. What do you care what other people have or are doing? Being judgmental is a waste of time.