Herewith, three “gifts” one 40-something woman would give a 20-something if she were a “Forty-Godmother”. What are yours?
To realize that you have unlimited options.
To be brave enough to take advantage of them.
Don’t be in such a rush. Don’t take the path of least resistance.
The ability to look at relationship as a separate entity that you are nurturing vs. me vs. him. A relationship is not a scorecard.