Women often ask me, “How long should I stay in a relationship? When do men change/grow up/want to commit? Today I’m sharing an insight from a 60 year woman that I think is relevant to relationships of all ages.
“If you think a guy isn’t happy because he won’t commit or fears intimacy, and you subscribe to the idea that unless he lets someone into his life he’s going to die unhappy and alone… then you should realize, he already is unhappy and alone. It’s up to you to decide if that is what you really want. The question isn’t wheter he will be happier with someone in his life, but whether he can ever learn to be happy with himself. You can stay with him but you just may be alone together.”