Q: When do 20-something men grow up? My girlfriends and I are recently single and have found the dating scene, well, interesting. Do 40-something men act the same? Why do 20-something men run for the hills when they hear the word “commitment” (not necessarily meaning marriage)? Why are they intimidated by strong career-focused women? Why are they […] Read more…
May 2011 archive
Three Wishes for a 20-Something (22)
Every time I interview a 40-something woman for 40:20 Vision I ask them what 3 “gifts” would they give a 20-something if they were a “Forty-Godmother”. Here are one woman’s gifts: 1. The ability to be present as much as possible 2. The necessary self confidence and fearlessness to pursue all of her dreams […] Read more…
Fashion Transitions: Advice for a Not Quite Adult and New Mom
Q: I’m a 20-year old mother of a 22 month old and a 1 month old. I don’t feel old enough to dress fully as an adult, but I know I shouldn’t be dressing as a teenager anymore. I was just wondering what I could do that’s both affordable and trendy? A. You want to […] Read more…
Who are the Real Relationship Role Models ?
On the heels of the breakdown of the Shriver / Schwarzenegger marriage Jezabel recently asked the question, “Who Are Your Relationship Role Models?” These days they are pretty hard to find as the article notes: “One might question whether any couple is destined to last. So when you think of the perfect partnership, you’re quite likely looking […] Read more…
Inspiring quotes from Navy SEALS on Life and Love
As I was researching my post earlier today I ran across these photos and quotes from the book SEAL: The Unspoken Sacrifice. I thought they reflected some lessons learned from 40 to 20. On not listening to the voices in your head… “In their mind, students ultimately fight the urge not to listen to the ‘little […] Read more…
Basic Training: On Being a Supportive Partner and Finding Your Own Strength
Q. My boyfriend of three years is leaving for basic training and I’m kind of freaking out. He’s always been the only person I could talk to about my feelings and he’s the only person who really knows what to say to help me. I feel like I’m losing my best friend. Help me. […] Read more…
Real or Reserved? Go Ahead and Get a Little Sloppy
Today I’m sharing an an excerpt from MeiMei Fox’s Huffington Post piece, “7 Secrets to a More Joyful Existence“. I love all seven points, but this was my favorite: 6) Don’t be afraid to get sloppy. “I was raised to put on a good show. To be the perfect daughter who shows up at the dinner […] Read more…
Three Gifts for a 20-Something (21)
Every time I interview a 40-something woman for 40:20 Vision I ask them what 3 “gifts” would they give a 20-something if they were a “Forty-Godmother”. Here are one woman’s gifts: 1. A tennis partner who is better than you because it’s the best way to learn. That’s an analogy of course. Don’t always […] Read more…