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Every time I interview a 40-something woman for 40:20 Vision I ask them what 3 “gifts” would they give a 20-something if they were a “Forty-Godmother”. Here are one woman’s gifts: 1. Self esteem. Do things for yourself. 2. A camera lens to adjust your life picture. Have the flexibility to understand it will […] Read more…
On deck for this weekend: a gathering of college roommates in NYC. That means lots of laughter, living, catching up, cocktails, and camaraderie. Yes they need nurturing, but the magic of some friendships is that no matter how long you go without connecting, the distance melts away when you get together. Herewith, an ode to friends. […] Read more…
Today I’m sharing what 40-something women have learned about risk that they would tell a 20-something. ~ You think the risk is in doing something, leaving a job or a relationship or a friend but the biggest risk is not doing it. We often fear the unknown. The relationship may not be great, but it’s […] Read more…
The other day we talked about dating in the workplace…what to do when you develop a crush on a colleague? But what about when you get unwanted comments or put in situations where you feel a co-worker or boss is treating you inappropriately? First of all …what is inappropriate? Most women would say trust your […] Read more…
Earlier this spring I did a post on healthy living tips from Magen Banwart, a wellness coach, on 5 tips to being your 20-something best self. As we get into summer full swing I am reposting some of these tips on how not to let a healthy dose of indulgence get in the way of […] Read more…
Happy 4th of July! In honor of Independence Day I took a look back at all my interviews to search for quotes and thoughts pertaining to independence. Here are some 40-something quotes on independence on subjects from family to finance to self-fulfillment. On independence within a relationship… “Give yourself some freedom to have independent lives. […] Read more…
Every time I interview a 40-something woman for 40:20 Vision I ask them what 3 “gifts” would they give a 20-something if they were a “Forty-Godmother”. Here are one woman’s gifts: 1. The knowledge that your parents wanting the best for you does not mean they won’t support you if you choose a different […] Read more…
Welcome to the first Flash Friday. On the first Friday of every month Molly Ford of Smart, Pretty and Awkward and I will answer a question from both the 20-something and 40-something perspective. The question today: What is your advice on relationships in the workplace? FLASH FORWARD: Molly’s 20-Something Advice: For many 20-somethings, your twenties […] Read more…